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Communication here can be simply described as
an exchange of information or ideas with a purpose. Unlike other species on the
planet, human beings are blessed with the ability to communicate with each
other effectively. We can express very clearly when we are happy; though we do
it very assuredly when we are not. We frequently communicate with ourselves
too. Few examples are: when thinking how we need to get a resolution for a
particular situation or the thoughts that go through when we need to take a
decision, or make a choice. While preparing for an interview, counsel, motivate
people. In fact the quality of communication in this process has a direct
impact on our decisions and choices we make, both for us as well as others.
Hence it is very important, that we keep this entire process simple, fair and a
positive one.
I would like to share an interesting excerpt from
an anonymous speaker, which I stumbled on:
The
quality of our communication with the world outside determines our success. The
quality of our communication with ourselves determines our happiness. It is not
enough to just improve the quality of our communication, with the world outside.
It is more important that we improve the quality of our communication with
ourselves. It is not what happens to you, it is how you interpret what happens
to you that make the difference.
It is our choices that show what we truly are, far
more than our abilities.
- J K Rowling
Communication - the human connection - is the key
to personal and career success.
- Paul J. Meyer
Once you improve the quality of communication
devoid of any perception (for in depth understanding of how perception forms a
barrier to positive communication, please refer to my earlier post: “Breaking our perception barrier to work with people effectively”) it is important that we express the thoughts to
get results. Some subtle ways of expressing positive communication are:
·
Creating a receptive
atmosphere.
·
Crystal clear communication
with no room for ambiguity.
·
Smiling generously.
·
Not missing out an
opportunity to appreciate.
·
Using appropriate body language/posture/appearance.
Also remember, our mind is a vault that
stores all of our abilities, memories, learning and almost everything else. In
other words, it is kind of a giant super space that is available to us. This
resource is readily available to us at any given time. It is helpful to gather
all the great experiences that we encounter, as a direct result of our positive
communication. It is important that we develop our mind as a repository of
these positive thoughts for future situations and opportunities. Hence the
famous quote:
When MIND is weak, situation is a PROBLEM,
When MIND is balanced, situation is a CHALLENGE, when MIND is strong situation
becomes an OPPORTUNITY.
A strong mind filled with positive thoughts, is
therefore essential while approaching impending challenges, which is perceived
as a problem by many. Also, it forms a powerful tool with an ability to detect
hidden opportunities while advancing such challenges.
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