That’s right
each and every person in this world including you has inherent good in them. Few
people are aware and use it to its fullest potential and others are yet to
realize it. This good is experienced when you do something good for someone and
experience satisfaction. That’s when you realize that you are capable of
influencing or touching other person’s life in a good way. Those deeds may be
very small to you but could leave a long lasting impression to the people it
matters most. Similarly, we too remember well the ‘good’ that we came across
from other people that has helped us out or taken us out of difficult
situations. This we are bound to remember for a real long time; some instances
probably for the rest of our lives.
As you are reading
this post, you may remember such instances and people from the past and relate
to what we are discussing. I am sure your thoughts will get refreshed and you will
feel a lot better when you just recall those moments. You must realize that it
is these powers of the ‘good’ present in you over a period of time form a charisma.
When you practice this strength with others in day to day relationships, both personal
and professional; it becomes your second nature; quicker than you could ever
imagine. Remember it’s not rocket science – it’s just as simple as never losing
an opportunity to do good.
The ability of being a source of
happiness to others is such a wonderful feeling. For me, thanks to my Mother, this thought
process was taught to me right from childhood. A few pointers that she
suggested to follow, whenever and wherever possible are:
·
Small
good acts are enough (sometimes like acknowledging, appreciating where we tend
to take things and people for granted)
·
Always
doing the right thing.
·
If
we sometimes aren’t able to do good in certain situation then no problem; but
never ever even think bad for the other person.
I have
always seen this particular thought process, help me enormously improve my
relationships both personal and professional. Practicing this, I realized that
people were more open with me than before and formed great bonds, long lasting
ones. It’s also proved to be phenomenal with making some really nice new
relationships; which otherwise was difficult to establish. Once we
master this capability and pass on the technique, we not only reap the benefits
of healthy relationships; but also make gradual yet powerful contribution to
the society that we live in.
My earlier post will provide an in depth analysis of our reactions to different situations. It will help us distinguish as to how we would react to a particular situation and how best we could possibly accomplish otherwise.
http://www.peoplemanagement.in/2016/01/the-good-bad-and-ugly-in-us-in.html
My earlier post will provide an in depth analysis of our reactions to different situations. It will help us distinguish as to how we would react to a particular situation and how best we could possibly accomplish otherwise.
http://www.peoplemanagement.in/2016/01/the-good-bad-and-ugly-in-us-in.html
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